So how do you stay calm, composed, and maintain self-esteem in a hostile environment?
Here are some tips that you can consider as an initial guide to self-improvement.
Imagine yourself as a dart game board.
Everything and everyone else around you can become Dart Pins, at one point or another.
These dart pins will destroy your self-esteem and bring you down in ways you won’t even remember. Don’t let them drain you or get the best of you. So, which dart pins should you avoid?
Beware of the theory that dogs eat dogs, where everyone is struggling just to get ahead. This is where non-appreciative people usually thrive.
No one will appreciate your contributions, even if you miss lunch and dinner, and stay up late. Most of the time, you work too hard without getting help from the people involved. Stay out of it; it will ruin your self-esteem.
Competition is at stake anywhere. Be healthy enough to compete, but in a vigorous game.
Mind bulldozers, brown muzzles, gossips, whiners, cheaters, chat snipers, controllers, irritants, complainers, all these types of people will present bad vibrations for their self-estimates, as well as its self-improvement scheme.
You can’t be a green bug in a recycling field.
Changes challenge our paradigms. It tests our flexibility, adaptability, and changes the way we think.
Changes make life difficult for a while, they can cause stress, but they help us find ways to improve our personality.
A replacement will be there forever; we must be susceptible to this.
It’s okay to cry and say, oh! When we feel pain. But don’t let the sadness turn to fear.
You can grab it by the tail and rotate it. Treat each failure and error as a lesson.
See what you are seeing. Do not get involved with all the negativities in the world.
When developing self-esteem, we need to learn how to make the best of the worst situations.
The way you are and your behavioral traits are considered a mixed end product of your inherited traits (genetics), your education (psychic) , and your environments, such as your spouse, the company, the economy, or your circle of friends.
You have your own identity. If your father is a failure, it does not mean that you must also be a failure. Learn from other people’s experiences, so you never have to encounter the same mistakes.
Sometimes, you may want to know if some people are born positive leaders or thinkers.
Being positive and staying positive is a choice. Building self-esteem and drawing lines for self-improvement is a choice, not a rule or a talent.
God did not come down from heaven and told you, Alice; you can now be allowed to build self-esteem and improve yourself.
In life, it’s hard to stay tough, especially when things and the people around you keep pulling you down.
When we get to the battlefield, we must choose the right luggage to bring and the armor to wear and select the bulletproof ones. Lifetime options provide us with matrices of more options.
Throughout the battle, we will be hit and hurt. And wearing bulletproof armor, ideally, changes automatically. The type of change comes from within.
Personal change changes three things: our attitude, our behavior, and our way of thinking.
Building self-esteem will eventually lead to self-improvement if we start being responsible for who we are, what we have, and what we do.
It is like a flame that should gradually spread like a brush fire inside and out. When we develop self-esteem, we take control of our mission, values , and discipline.
Self-esteem generates self-improvement, authentic evaluation, and determination. So, how do you start to put the essential elements of self-esteem?
Be content and happy. Be grateful.
Never miss an opportunity to learn and raise your mind above all else.
A positive way of living will help you create self-confidence, your introductory guide to self-improvement.